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Intention Radio Interview

My interview with Sue Dumais from Heartled Living on Intention Radio.

Look for title – Voodoo Shit for Men with guest Michèle Bisson-Somerville

http://intentionradio.com/expect-miracles/

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Keeping Up With the Joneses is All About Perception

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So many of us don’t know any better when it comes to “Keeping up with the Joneses”. Why are we so plagued in always comparing ourselves to others? Why do we need the newest device, car, suit, house, watch, etc. when we barely have two cents to rub together, let alone a retirement savings and owe a shit load in debt?

I have seen this very notion of “Keeping up with the Joneses in a few clients this past year and some are living outside of their means. Why do they persist on increasing their debt? Why are they not saving for their future – their retirement? One client in particular answered: “Well, I am living in the present, who knows what will happen tomorrow and if I will be here to enjoy it all.” Perhaps, he is, yet he is not safeguarding himself for the future and his well-being.

Many of our present actions will affect our future either negatively or positively. When it comes to finances, it is imperative to ensure that your logical mind is active and you are also flexing your intuitive muscle. There needs to be a balance between present day spending and future saving. So how can this relate to you flexing your intuitive muscle? Very easily as many of the financial mistakes and oversights that are occurring now are most likely rooted in a past relationship with money or an emotional bond to feeling as though you will not have enough. Then again maybe it is all about the perception.

I had been working with a man in his early forties this past year that struggled financially. He came from a family he described as middle class until his dad lost his job. Afterwards, the family’s finances drastically changed, forcing my client at a very young age to find a job to help support his brothers and sisters. He had had dreams of attending university to become an accountant. A little ironic, don’t you think? I thought so. As his other siblings became old enough to work, they did too. Eventually, his father found employment, which allowed my client to concentrate on his studies and to save his earnings for his post-secondary education. He did manage to attend a local university and became an accountant.

What troubled him the most was his inability to save money now that he was making “The Big Bucks”. He owns his firm, has approximately 6 staff members and is thinking of expanding his firm to a different city, yet he has no retirement savings. How can this be, I recall questioning him in a session. His answer was silence. He had no answer. He knew he should have a retirement savings, he knew he should stop living outside of his means, he knew he should not spend so much money on outings, drinks and dinners. He confessed that consciously he knew he needed to cut back his spending but sub-consciously he felt his mind tell him if he didn’t spend his money, he’d lose it.

So he agreed to a few sessions of Reiki. Reiki is a natural and ancient technique using healing, universal life force energy to help clear toxins, negativity, stagnancy, blockages that steam from the emotional, spiritual, physical, mental or even energetic bodies. During a Reiki treatment, I as the practitioner will evaluate using my spidey senses, my gut instincts, my X-ray vision, my bionic ears, and my intuition to what is going on in his body. I will sense with my hands where I need to focus the Reiki energy to allow your healing to take place. What I noticed with this client was that his perception was way off the mark. As a movie reel ran through his mind, I “picked up” his thoughts of how he measured his worth by comparing himself to others. He needed to have the most expensive shoes, wardrobe and car. He needed to spend the most money when out with his friends. The end result was massive amounts of debt. I could easily sense this in the lower part of his legs. I felt a huge drop, a hole. Later on, he confirmed his debt following the Reiki treatment.

I wanted my client’s perception of everyone else and of himself to change. I wanted him to stop comparing himself to others, as he did not know the extent of their financial situations. He decided it was time to look at his life differently and started recording three to five items that he was grateful for during the day. I advised him to concentrate on the many “gifts” he already had or was receiving through the week in order to bring awareness to the good and positive. I specifically asked my client to focus on material goods that he possessed and to record why he was grateful for them. For example, his brand new shiny car because it transported him to work every day and was in pristine condition. He found this task quite easy to incorporate into his day. Furthermore, I asked him to take note of non-material items he was grateful for. These might include time spent playing with his children. Once again, he found this task effortless and simple.

Over time, I noticed his sessions were more about the positive aspects around his financial situation then the lack of it. As he began to appreciate the many things he had in his life, the easier it was for him to save money. His perception of what money could “buy” or bring into his life also changed.

Eventually, his spending became under control, he started paying off some of his debt and he automatically started savings for himself. He realizes that even the perceived wealthiest people can also have debt and not everyone is a Jones.

Why be Ordinary – Strive to be Extraordinary!

Be the unique man you are meant to be and start with your necktie. There are so many men out there who always wear their necktie in the same knot as everyone else. Why not be different. Show your stripes, your colours, allow your instincts to take hold and tie a unique and extraordinary necktie.

My favourite knot is the Eldredge. My oldest son, Ross tried this knot for his prom and graduation that just passed. Let me tell you, the boy got noticed! He received more compliments on his necktie than some of the girls received on their dresses. He knew he wanted a difference knot for his necktie that was visually appealing, different, and extraordinary! He took time to practice in the mirror days ahead of time while following the you-tube video (I have attached the link for you too). In the end, Ross made an impression with everyone around him.

How does this relate to your Voodoo power, your gut instincts, your spidey-senses, you ask? Simply put, everyone will notice your uniqueness in your necktie after that you can dazzle him or her with your Voodoo power. Dig into your toolbox of clairs and use the one best suited for the occasion. Will it be your clairvoyance tool, in being to see a bit of what this person is like and how they will fit into your life – personal or business? Will it be your clairaudience tool, are you able to hear a secret or hidden message underlining in the conversation that you are having that will reveal an answer to a burning question you have had? Will it be your clairsentience tool, when you shake hands with this person, what are you feeling from their energy being projected in the handshake? Can you trust them? Will they be an ally or foe? Will it be your claircognizance tool in which you just know what you know about the situation at hand – good or not so great?

Perhaps a few of your tools will be used at once. Either way, pay attention to the details, act upon the information you receive and relish in the abundance of a new friendship, new business deal, new romantic partner, and etcetera.

Teach Them Well

Teach Them Well

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September brings for us parents mixed feelings as we send our children to school. As for myself, there are many new feelings this September. My youngest son is off to high school and my oldest son is attending university.

How does this relate to gut instincts, Voodoo power and intuition? Very easily…. I could only hope that all the prep work that I did as their highly intuitive mother will prepare them well enough to follow and continue to flex their own intuitive muscles.

In high school, no doubt that my youngest son will encounter situations that he did not in the elementary years. In university, in a different town, across an ocean, on an island my oldest son will definitely be faced with trusting his gut even more now that he is on his own for the very first time in his life! He is pursuing his dream career by embarking on post-secondary courses that will lead him to fulfilling that dream. My middle son will continue on with his journey as he moves up a year in high school and will soon be faced with making career decisions and choices. Which courses shall he take this year that will guide him in his career path? Does he even know which path that will be yet? Unlike his two brothers, he has not quite figured it out and that is just fine. I know that his inner voice will speak clearly to him and will show him his destined path when the time is right.

Despite my anxiety, I know that all three of my boys are well equipped “intuitively” to make the necessary choices. Their Voodoo Shit has not failed them thus far, why would it now? It will only seem to fail them, if they chose to not listen, pay attention or act upon their intuition. So Voodoo On Boys and to you pass along your Voodoo knowledge to your children too!

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We all have Voodoo power within us.

I have recently seen the newest sci-fi action movie called “Lucy” with my family. Being surrounded by boys and men my whole life and now a mom of three boys, I don’t often get the chance to watch a chick flick. In my household, sci-fi action movies take precedence over any other genre.

Lucy is an average young adult living in Taiwan and is tricked into becoming a drug mule for her boyfriend. She discovers a bag of a drug called CPH4 has been placed in her stomach and is broken during an assault. The drug is then released into her system and her Voodoo powers are intensified to the 100th degree. Essentially, this drug expands Lucy brain capacity to work at 100% and allows her intuitive powers to magnify. She feels everything around her if she chooses to, using her clairsentience tool. Lucy sees into the past, future and present of what the world was like, will be and continues to be, using her clairvoyance. She hears other people’s thoughts, using her clairaudience and finally she uses her claircognizance to pass along her knowledge to the team of doctors.

We all have a bit of Lucy within us, harness that power, use it, flex it, own it. Experiment with your different tools, your senses, your intuition and become part of all that is, knowing you too can BE EVERYWHERE!

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